According
to Meriam-Webster, disconnect is defined as "to become detached or
withdrawn." Disconnect clearly defines Mersault's relationship with his
mother. Mersault's seemingly indifferent attitude towards everything in his
life affected his relationship with his mother. He ended up putting her in a
home and rarely visiting her. When he found out the news of her death, he was
evidently unaffected by what had happened. The result of his disconnected
relationship could have been caused by his later teenage years. Most teenagers
today try very hard to disconnect themselves from their parents in order to
mature and become more independent. If teenagers become too independent and
disconnected they can end up having relationships with their parents similar to
Mersault's; however, if they do not gain enough independence, they will not be
emotionally ready to go off to college and mature as an adult.
Mersault’s
relationship with his mother is easily described as detached and dysfunctional.
On the surface, Mersault is very distant from his mother and they don’t seem to
have a typical mother-son relationship. Mersault decides to put his mother into
a nursing home for the remainder of her life, and barely visits her. When he
hears the news of her passing, it almost seems as though going to her funeral
is a nuisance. He states at the very beginning of the novel: “Maman died today.
Or yesterday maybe, I don’t know” (Camus 3). This disconnected relationship between mother and son must
have been caused by something in Mersault’s childhood. Analyzing their
relationship, the deep-rooted disconnect must come from Mersault’s teenage
years as he was becoming an adult. It seems that as teenagers grow up, they
attempt to become more independent and break away from their parents. It seems
as though Mersault became too independent, and broke away too much from his
mother, ruining their relationship.
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